Where do you get the bold part from?
Also, I wonder what the better option is in terms of getting the phone sooner. If they only start shipping on the 14th, it won't arrive until after the weekend. With an in-store pickup reservation, however...
I remember when I preordered the original iPad in Switzerland. I placed a preorder seconds after the preorder went up on the store (was sitting there hitting refresh until it showed up) and I actually received it in the mail on a Wednesday. The store launch was on a Friday. I got it a full two days early. I'm sure there will be cases of that with the iPhone 4S as well.