I'm getting pretty frustrated...
I ordered on the 7th @ 11:40am GMT from the Apple store online and still not even had a shipping notification. All it says is estimated despatch 17th-24th.
Nothing today...
And to rub it in, two colleagues have got hold of handsets from carriers. It appears Apple have favoured the carriers and sold the majority of the 4S stock to them.
Even worse for me. Despite working until 6am, I awoke at 7.45am ready to place my order for the grand opening at 8.01. Of course Apple didn't open on time and although I managed to stay awake until 8.33am the store was still offline when I fell asleep. I awoke again at 10.45am and immediately placed my order for 2 x 64GB 4s (1 of each colour) and like you I am yet to have shipping notification.
So I feel particularly hard done by to be honest. If Apple had opened the store when they should - heck if they'd have even opened half an hour after they should, then I'd have been one of the first to place an order instead of one of the one's still waiting.
Bloody annoying!!!