I really wouldn't be worried if your card hasn't been charged yet. According to people from previous launches who bought at AT&T/Verizon, our phones should already be in a warehouse somewhere in the US. I'm guessing if the people with tracking numbers looked it up, they could verify that?
This is what the verizon CSR person told me, that everything was OK and that my phone was waiting to be shipped out and that I'll get all my confirmation emails shortly.