you would be surprised what some companies do for people who write them letters, its worked for me in the past
First of all, why would Apple help you?
You're not even an iPhone customer. You're not giving money to Apple. You're not giving money to AT&T. They owe you 'what' exactly?
They would not give you a free iPhone if this is your angle. And they'd have no right to contact your seller.
It is your responsibility.
I don't understand why you've tried to play the part of P.I, investigating his MySpace, e-mail, and mobile company.
You were silly to look at that phone, and think it was the iPhone - yes.
You were lied to - and on those grounds, have a right to get your money back.
Also, it seems your state has a 3-day refund law.
Why on earth didn't you go to the Police on the
day this happened? Why would you wait? I just don't get it.
The Police and authorities are going to be far more menacing to this fraudulent seller than you are, knocking on his door with a sad face, or bombarding his MySpace.
If you haven't already - go through the proper channels, and get your money back.
Good luck to you, but stop walking on egg shells - go and get it done.