Well... A few things:
First, Apple, in my opinion, shouldn't have given the bands an earlier ship date than the Watches to begin with. Does it honestly make sense to you that people who already have watches get
extra bands and accessories before the people who don't even have Watches yet?
Now, having said that, I in no way think they should blow you (and everyone else who ordered the band separately) off and change their prioritization. That would be twice as insane as giving you the priority in the first place.
They told you they would have you a band by the 12th and I fully believe that is their responsibility. However, I think they should be working as hard as possible (which I'm sure they are) to ensure that the first batch of Watches with Links get shipped out at the same time as the Link accessories, no sooner no later.
This is all somewhat irrelevant to me since I went for Space Black, but really I just want us all to have our Watches and Bands...

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