Style is subjective, so there’s no uniform answer here based on what you like versus what I like.
As for the controllers being dirtied from constant touching, yes, that will probably be an issue, (as it was for the white Xbox controller years ago). But I’m fairly particular about how I handle things, and I generally will take a damp microfiber cloth and wipe down my controllers when I’m through, I pre-wash my hands, etc. I’m different, but I keep my ‘tech gear‘ looking new. It’s all how you manage it.