We will have to agree to disagree, I think the Pixel 3XL is a far more accomplished design as is the new Huawei in my opinion. The cameras look terrible on the current iPhone XS Max and face ID is a nightmare and one of the many reasons I hardly ever use my iPhone XS Max but much rather reach for my Pixel 3XL.
Granted the notch is nicer on the iPhone, even though it never looks nice on any phone and hopefully will be gone from most flagships in 2019. To be clear iPhone's didn't start using notches Android powered phones did. It's a bad solution but currently the best solution to having front facing cameras, the Pixel 3's for instance have two so that's why the notch is bigger.
In terms of the software I've had far less issues on the Pixel line of phones than on my iPhone's in the last 3 years. I think it's important to accept that Android and Android phone manufacturers have caught up and in many ways surpassed Apple rather than blindly praise everything they do. Apple's it just works moniker hasn't been true for many years and we need to call them up on that.