You hit something critical - the e-mail Apple sent him had a bad reply-to address. This has happened to me, multiple times, with Apple and Apple Card. He definitely made some mistakes but Apple also made some mistakes and then made it more difficult than it needed to be for him to rectify things.
Rather than be so quick to criticize this guy for his admitted failures, let's recognize something rather unusual here, compared to most complaints that get this kind of attention in today's ultra sensitive social environment - this guy very clearly walked us all through the sequence of events, and he did not try to put all of the fault on Apple but instead was forthcoming in admitting his own mistakes:
- "As it turns out, my bank account number changed in January, causing Apple Card autopay to fail" (implied but not stated is that he forgot to update this in his Apple Card account)
- "But the trade-in kit never arrived. I had forgotten about it. When I received an email in mid-February asking about the trade-in, I responded . . . "
- "Unfortunately, this email got lost in my inbox and I didn’t see it until I went looking" (referring to the e-mail notifying him that they would be disabling his AppleID; he over-looked it)
Frankly, I give him credit for taking responsibility as much as he did. I'm so tired of living in a society where nobody wants to take responsibility for anything. Who steps up and admits it when they do something wrong?
Well, this guy did, in sharing his story with us, so bravo for him.