I don't think Apple is allowing ANY redirects if you go through UPS.
I called apple and asked to change the address for me.. and they did it!
this is my UPS
09/18/2012 1:47 P.M. A UPS agent has requested a Proactive Response intercept for this package. / Deliver to Another Address.
Louisville, KY, United States 09/18/2012 10:00 A.M. Arrival Scan
Nashville, TN, United States 09/17/2012 3:06 P.M. Departure Scan
Nashville, TN, United States 09/16/2012 4:01 P.M. Departure Scan
09/16/2012 10:49 A.M. Origin Scan
United States 09/15/2012 12:25 P.M. Order Processed: Ready for UPS