Went through the whole long deal on the Apple site and it crapped out with a vague (un-Apple-like) error message close to the end. So, frustrated, I went directly to the Verizon site. Surprisingly, it was very easy and everything went through right away with no problems (at least it appeared to). Since I was ordering multiple phones (one black and one white 16GB 4S), transferring numbers, and signing up for a family plan, I think it was easier to do it through the carrier site anyway. Says "Deliver by 10/14/2011" so...fingers crossed!
One thing that's weird is the Verizon site never asked me about text messaging, although it did say "Shared Voice and Messaging" (with the family plan), but I had seen other places that text messaging is still an extra change with Verizon, so I'm a little confused about that. Does anyone know if there is text messaging included in the 700 minutes family plan?
EDIT: Woo hoo! Just got email confirmation that the Verizon order (including credit check) went through. And still says 10/14 delivery. So I'm very happy, normally I like ordering though the Apple store, but in this case the Verizon site was super easy and fast. Kudos to them and as a new Verizon customer (you can SUCK IT, AT&T!), that's a good start.