No it isn't, "ACE". Jailbreak your phone and you can video chat over ATT. Not a carrier issue at all. It's an Apple issue. And is it a carrier issue that limits this stupid thing to iPhone to iPhone only? Take off the fanboy hat.
I'll tell you this right now, if Apple has the iPhone on Sprint, Sprint would say "no way" to video calling. You know why? It would cripple their network based on the number of iPhones 4's that will be sold.
It IS the carriers because they are afraid of how MANY iPhones will be using the feature. EVO can simply because they know that EVO won't sell nearly as many phones as the iPhone.
It's all marketing folks. Use business sense here. If AT&T physically could, don't you think they would? It would be a huge sell for them. But it would cripple the network.
iPhone will sell 10's of MILLIONS. EVO won't. Get over it.
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