Isn't it funny that you've been trained for so long that you've decided this is your problem and not the computer's? It doesn't even occur to you that the computer should be fixing stuff like that. That's how ingrained it is into our minds.[/I]
I'm skeptical that Lion is going to be fixing everything. What if an application has background threads that are bogging the system down? What if it's just enough to annoy you or lower the performance of a game? What's the OS going to do for you? If it thinks things are performing fine, you'll just have to live with it.
I'm sure some kind of force quit will still exist - even if it's just a kill -9 from the Terminal. But there are applications that have special startup and shutdown behaviors. The Eclipse Java IDE for example - there's certain housekeeping functions it performs on shutdown. That may be a poor design pattern, but it's reality. And some applications don't like being force quit, and you try to avoid the practice whenever possible, because you know you'll have some issues when you restart it.
Is it going to detect memory leaks? When will it kill Evernote - when it has been using over 1GB of ram for a certain amount of time? And then what will I notice - the app window mysteriously changing state and bumping me out of the record I was looking at as it restarts for real?