I’m not even particularly young, but… I hate to say it, I get it. At this point using an Android is like a cultural red flag. iPhone is, for better or worse, the social phone, and if you want to be a social person, you have an iPhone. If you don’t have an iPhone, it indicates that you don’t particularly care to partake in society, it indicates that you are out of touch with the culture. How can you possibly relate? iMessage is the ecosystem’s greatest strength.
There are kids, young adults even, who only ever grew up in this world with the iOS ecosystem being an established thing… I can understand how they might be sketched out by green bubbles, which are equated with text message scammers, SMS marketing and automated bots - they’re usually not coming from actual veritable people you typically want to talk to. Or how those people can’t interact in group chats, or how basic interactivity features aren’t available to them or have backwards workarounds, or when they want you to download 500 other messaging apps as if you’re going to open a separate app and make a separate account to talk to the one person in the group who doesn’t have an iPhone… you can’t effectively send them pictures, you can’t effectively send them videos… you can’t interact with them like you interact with everyone else.
It’s not even a cost or financial status thing. There are low end iPhones, there are older and used iPhones… you can very easily get into the iOS ecosystem with a very competent smartphone for $100-200.
I guess the “old people” equivalent of this is the feeling you get when you talk to someone and they give you a Yahoo or AOL email address. Email addresses are usually free, and for the most part they work the same way but their choice of something that’s very out of vogue can still be offputting.