This is the perfect comment,I bought a 14 plus and... I love it! It's lighter than the standard sized 13/14 pro and just as fast(if you say you notice a speed difference between an A15 and an A16, you are making up lies on the internet). The screen is bright, crisp, and doesn't give me ProMotion-sickness. The battery can't be killed, been off the charger for 4 hours now and still at 100%. Photos are still great even though I can't zoom into my neighbor's windows or take macro shots of bugs. I am very happy with my purchase even though it's not a 14 pro max, imagine that! I even traded in a 13 pro for it, come at me 😂
Tech forums are a very biased sampling of phone users. It's mostly spec-peepers and enthusiast nerds who see no point in anything but the best of the best, they can't imagine anyone wanting a "lesser" phone. Most people though will see the 14 plus and say "Oh cool, I can get a big phone for $200 cheaper"
many people will love the 14+ and I fully believe having the option there is a good thing