Part of the reason that the iPhone 14 Pro and iPhone 14 Pro Max are so in demand this year is that Apple packed them full of features the standard iPhone 14 models just didn't get. Faster processors, better cameras, and the Dynamic Island make the iPhone 14 Pro far more appealing than the iPhone 13-like iPhone 14 models
I really don't feel like the Pro is that much better than the standard iPhone 14 for everyday use. Even though I'm the more techy person, I got the standard 14 and got my wife the Pro specifically because she is more inclined to use zoom on the camera. I will often grab my wife's phone briefly to do something and she will often do the same with mine.
The faster processor makes no appreciable difference for my use, I'm not doing heavy workloads on my phone. The Dynamic Island was cool when I first saw it and I was jealous my wife was getting it but I wasn't... but now I don't even think about the difference between our phones regarding the dynamic island... it doesn't really save any space on the screen, so I don't care. All reviews I checked out said that other than the zoom on the Pro's camera, the cameras work and produce the same quality images. I was disappointed to not have optical zoom and like I said that's why I got my wife the Pro, but honestly I hardly ever use it.
However, my wife will often comment whenever she picks up my phone how light it is compared to hers, and I get the distinct impression that she is trying to decide whether it was worth getting the Pro with the extra weight in order to have optical zoom. Ultimately, I think she returns to be secure in her decision, but she gets those doubts from time to time.
I really think that iPhones are such a mature and great product now that it's no longer an issue to have a bit of an older or "lower" model. Yeah, I'm looking forward to being able to use USB-C to charge all my devices, but I also have about 20-30 lightning cables right now everywhere I need to use them, so I'm fine for another couple years.