Ah 14 and dating? Drop her and start dating again after college.
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Ah 14 and dating? Drop her and start dating again after college.
lol just kidding, you should sack the **** up and talk to the guy personally.
Most sensible answer so far. Getting the law involved is more immature and childish than what the guy's doing.
How is it immature and childish to call the cops on sexual assault?![]()
I'd imagine this is the kind of thinking that leads to the many unreported rape claims.
Edit: Ah beaten to the punch already!
Maybe. People may disagree with calling the cops, but it is a viable option. It isn't overkill and certainly not immature and childish because there is a major crime being committed. Calling the cops on a person spitting on you would be overkill, but sexual assault? Do kids really see sexual assault as no big deal?
having my ass slapped, myboobscrotch grabbed, my body in general spoken about like it was just an object
Speaking of which, and not to make light of anything I just got back from a great holiday in Italy
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I love the smell of teen angst in the morning
Maybe. People may disagree with calling the cops, but it is a viable option. It isn't overkill and certainly not immature and childish because there is a major crime being committed. Calling the cops on a person spitting on you would be overkill, but sexual assault? Do kids really see sexual assault as no big deal?
I think it is lawyers who have a similar perspective that begin to twist things into things that they are not.
In my experience, diagnosing somebody with a personality disorder on the secondhand report of the guy who feels wronged or insecure because of her is probably not an especially reliable thing to do.
Furthermore, diagnosing a teenaged girl with an affliction whose symptoms include emotional unpredictability, attention-seeking and not really seeming to know what she wants out of a relationship is like diagnosing water with wet.
OP, what the hell were you thinking starting this thread? You've been here long enough to know what it would turn into. Or maybe you're just trolling. Shrug.
Lastly, I definitely don't condone dating, but you're free to do whatever you want, so I'm not going to give a biased opinion and say to break up with her.
but the relationship will eventually break up, might as well cut your losses.
If she was that bothered she'd do something about it, properly.
So how do you initiate relationships? I'm just wondering if I can cut out all the crap bits and jump straight into bed.
So how do you initiate relationships? I'm just wondering if I can cut out all the crap bits and jump straight into bed*.
AppleMatt
*joking. But how do you initiate a relationship?
I know several people who've stayed together for decades and are in fact still together after meeting at school, so it does happen.
Given the British government have estimated that 95% of rapes aren't reported (which is something people would definitely be bothered about) I don't think that's a reasonable statement.
I'd hardly call this rape...
I'd hardly call this rape...
It's definitely WAY over the line, far beyond being playful.
Understand, I see in your sig. you state you're 14, so you're young, meaning she probably is too. She probably DOES like the attention, young girls do, all girls really, but it doesn't excuse it's perversion.
I don't know how long you've been dating, but if not to long, then this is hers, and only her, battle. If the relationship has a long history, meaning more than say 6 months, then it is up to you to protect. But do it in a manner that is necessary for a 14 year old to do.
Be safe, and attentive, not physical and impulsive.
AL9o
So how do you initiate relationships? I'm just wondering if I can cut out all the crap bits and jump straight into bed*.
AppleMatt
*joking. But how do you initiate a relationship?