Again you are trying to pretend that somehow you are being forced. In the current situation there is no one being forced into anything, not in the actual sense of the word which is why the argument is so incredibly pointless.
There are two completely different options out there for customers. If like you prefer an open end platform where you can install whatever you want and have the control you feel Apple is oppressing, then clearly despite like of hardware Apple is not for you if that is your primary motivating factor. It is like there are plenty of people that prefer sportscars, but their life and usage requirements make it completely impractical and they would be miserable if they were forced to have one as their only option.
App developers are equally free to decide if the cost of doing business on the Apple platform is worth the costs. This has been a core concept of the free market system since the beginning. If a developer wants access to the customer base that Apple has cultivated, they make that decision for themselves, which is why there are thousands of apps that are not available. Again a developer has the free choice to determine whether the market is strong enough to support them being there, and if it is not, then the app developer is the one to blame for making the poor choice and not researching their market and honestly it is better for everyone that those developers fail. It opens the market up to new developers with potentially more business savy instead of artificially propping up those that do not know their customer base or how to properly gauge a market. There are tons of very successful app and software developers that do not nor ever will make an iOS application. They know their user base and they go where that user base is. Would they like to have the Apple user base too? sure, but they know it is not worth it and have smartly focused their efforts where they will get the most return.
The argument that somehow the government must intervene is 90% of the time driven by someone that has a very unique usage requirement and wants to use Apple but can't and feels that the rest of the world should be forced to change just so they can have the device they want cater to them personally and usually pushed by people who do not have the understanding of the technical side, and assume that change is a simple toggle somewhere in the menu, when in fact is a very core system change and one that would affect every single user, not just those that feel they want that added freedom.
Again forcing both systems to be basically mirrors of each other on slightly different hardware does not benefit the larger public. It stifles change and innovation because it means both systems have to do things in the same manner. It removes choice from millions of people that prefer it the way it is now, and removes the freedom and choice of the company creating it to be free to target their niche and operate in their own business philosophy.
Currently the system in place is what offers the most freedom and choice to the largest groups of people, app developers and the hardware/os manufacturers. The user can make a choice from one system to the other depending on what they prioritize, open environment or more secure closed. The App developer can chose to target one market, or the other, or if they feel it is in their own best interests they can target both. Android and Apple both get the freedom to develop and focus on the customer base they have cultivated.