Apple wants you to use the new program, so it makes sense that if it detects both errors, it will make you choose one. But choosing one or the other at this point is irrelevant; they both work exactly the same and produce the same errors. Apple devices also receive far more updates than iTunes, having updated twice in the last three months, while iTunes has only been updated once, and the time will come when they will abandon it.
In short, neither of them will brick your phone because, as I said before, if it detects that you want to install a version the program isn't compatible with, it won't even start; it will ask you to update the program. If it does start, it updates the phone without problems. I still don't see what you're afraid of exactly. I also recommend that if you don't want to be an early adopter or don't have the necessary knowledge and precautions, you stick to stable versions and update programs and versions as they are officially released. But using iTunes to update with the IPSW file will give you twice the headaches, because Apple updates it less and less frequently, and a few months ago it took almost a month to make iTunes compatible with iOS 26.2, while Apple devices were updated a day before the final release to allow the phone to update to this version.