They didn't change anything. You want them to stop improving charging and similar just so people who have older model chargers won't feel bad? Maybe they should stop making their phones faster too.
That's right, you don't have to. At all. By your rationale, every improvement Apple makes is a shameless money grab.
They never really claimed that. Also, if you have a different charger, changes are you also have a cable for it. They included the cable for the charger standard which is here now, namely USB-C, which you can buy plenty of from different companies.
A cable has much less environmental impact than a charger.