First off, when I activate a phone I am very careful with it.
Secondly, if a twelve year old like most of the posters in this thread said something to be about setting a newly activated phone down on the counter, I would laugh in his or her face.
I assume that most you are twelve and under because most don't know how to spell, don't the difference between "you're" and "your", or think that the word "prepared" is actually spelled "pre paired." Apparently in that last example the user came to the with his bluetooth device already paired to his new iPhone.
Considering that, like one poster mentioned, these phone will be outdated in a year, if I owned one I would be careful with it but wouldn't cry if it got "two hairline cracks" across the Apple symbol. It seems that most folks here don't understand that phones are made to be used, and often even get -gasp- outdated and replaced. If knowledge is power (which it is), most of the posters in this thread are quite powerless. Don't worry though, like your credit score, your power will grow with age as long as you are responsible.
Sorry, I know that I'm not contributing to this thread, it was just too much to pass up.