Apple in Denmark just tell me that if it shows up within the next week, they are happy and wont help at all.
Wow! That's insanely unhelpful - not what I would have expected from Apple.
I've only had one delivery from UPS and I wasn't in for it so they left it with my neighbour, which was fine for me, even though I hadn't asked them to do it. Could they not do that for you?
After that I'm not sure what to suggest really, I'm still shocked at Apple's response.