I have the predictable crash when TM backup to USB drive, but successfully backed up to a NAS as you did. So 'no', you're not the only a$$hole. There's me too.
Same here. I back up to both a NAS (at home) and a USB drive (in the office). The remote office took me a couple weeks to get done as I'd have to leave it alone for hours on end and I don't have that luxury running from meeting to meeting. Eventually it succeeded the initial backup and subsequent backups are relatively small and completed ok.
As for the NAS backup, it completed immediately, without issue day one.