There is some truth to this, but it is because people trust Apple. Take for example LTE. People can claim that Apple is late to the game, or is "catching up", but it was because Apple felt comfortable enough with the technology in terms of battery consumption, size of the chips, and network availability that they can put it in their phones. Apple wants nothing but a gat end user experience, and they don't want it to conflict with other functions or features. Never has Apple wanted to rush new technology out to the public just because it was new.
NFC is the same way. Until this technology is up to the point where it can honestly improve someone's life, be secure, and be easy to use then it won't be present in their products.
Going back to my point, Apple fans do disregard something before Apple comes out with it, but not because they are pretending it doesn't exist, but because they trust Apple to implement it correctly the first time.
Totally agree.