At last, someone with sense....
I called O2 again and to be honest layed it on a little bit thick. I was annoyed that O2 had had my card details and I have still not received confirmation.
The call centre opo out me on hold for a good 5 mins,
"ok, this is what is happening", "All the orders done on the 'failsafe' form are being processed manually and we are hoping to have these orders complete over the next 48hours"
"You will hear from O2 once your order has been processed, if you don't here anything before Wednesday afternoon by all means call us back"
So, I am starting to see a little bit of light at the end of a very long tunnel. IF they fail to confirm my order I will visit the CPW on Friday - nothing lost