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Ohhhh boy have I got a girl story for you guys.
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Well, I've been home for 3 weeks now. She still hasn't left my mind, despite my best efforts to push her out. I guess it's my fault for letting myself get in so deep with a person who I knew was abusive from the beginning.
Just trying to get my dignity back, one day at a time.
Just trying to get my dignity back, one day at a time.
Lamina- babe, you have got some serious problems with regards to relationships and self-esteem. I was not kidding when I told you to go seek help. I would not tell you that if I didn't care. Please get help soon.
Best medicine to forget stuff is time. Eventually you will get it over her. Also, if you want to heal faster, do what Lee said, it's effective and can unroot some deep issues and help you work to solve them.
You're*, but yes I agree. Both need counseling. Lee is right. And I'm not joking, either.
Wow. She is utterly psycho. I advice you to break up with her and get on with your life. There are so many things wrong with this situation that I'm not going to list them all out.
Just the fact that you have to walk on eggs in order to not upset her should be enough to make you leave.
Just the fact that you have to walk on eggs in order to not upset her should be enough to make you leave.
Good grief. . . I'll have to make sure I forward this to our immigration officials. I'm pretty sure we don't need this girl or the OP in our country.
No offense OP, but the fact that your willing to put up with this much BS says you don't have much of a backbone.
Learning to be alone is one of the best things you can do. It's not easy, but I think you'll find that once you figure that out, your relationships will get much healthier.
If you don't, you're going to keep attracting abusive people because they'll know you're more afraid to be alone than you are of their abuse.
And dammit- you're too damn cute and sweet for me to just sit here and say nothing. Now run along- you've got a psycho to dump.
I would love to be able to do this. I think that's my problem as well. I'm the same as some people in this thread, I can't be alone. I always have to be with someone. I don't know how to fix it.
You have to make yourself do it. Concentrate on yourself, your goals and your friends. Friends are the best asset anyone can have. Never give up your friends for a lover.
Every time I see your avatar I think of the milkman.
I hope you take Lee's advice.
I hope so, too. Lamina is a beautiful guy inside and out, and he deserves much better from himself and others.
My thought is My So Called Life
The chick is Rayanne Graff - hotter than the sun, but nuttier than squirrel poo.
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egg-zact-lee! I did the exact same scenario and can't tell you how valuable my friends opinion(s) were.
op - listen to your friends and family, when it comes to a nut-job chick!
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QFMFT!
It wans't easy, but it took me some serious self-examination over about a years time by my self to figure out who I was and who I wanted to be associated with. This was between the time I was 24-25. I am 30 now and happier than ever. Last year I married the woman I dated for 6 years, who is my perfect match
I stopped reading here.
She's angry because you were looking at a sign and not her. I may not know much about women - and never claim I do; but that is crazy.
End it now, before its too late. Think about it, would you want to marry this girl and have kids?