You say that as if Palm enabled direct iTunes syncing as post-launch reaction and it did not. Since well before launch it was known that Palm was planning on making the Pre sync directly w/iTunes. Also, the 'news' that Pre is experiencing a high return rate is based on anandotal, unscientific evidence (see my post at #132).
Lethal
Just agreeing with you that unsatisfied customers with any product are always MUCH more vocal than the happy ones. When people have something to bitch about, they'll let it fall on any open ears.