I was disappointed with the AirPods Max. They were extremely comfortable, and I really liked how they sounded fit, but the battery would drain each day regardless of how little I used them and regardless of whether they were in the case.
I also experienced occasional bluetooth drop outs sitting at my desk, within a foot of my MacBook. Not just a blip, but a flat out disconnect for no clear reason. At other times, I could also walk across the house with the AirPods Max.
I have a pair of AirPods Pro that I use most of the time, and they are easy to charge. You put them in the case, and you occasionally place the case on the charging pad at night. That's a great workflow.
The AirPods Pro have never had connectivity issues.
I also have a pair of bluetooth headphones that have a circumaural closed ear design like the AirPods Max. I was going to move to the AirPods Max because of how easily I can move between my Apple devices, but it seems like the firmware isn't fully baked.
They will hopefully address these issues in future firmware releases.