They did invite them and Adobe returned with a crappy product. Netbooks are much bigger with less demand for long batter life not to mention Not using a mac OS
If so, making that "crappy product" available to those interested would dramatically support Apple's points, without the public "p*ssing content"). Instead, by not even making it possible for users to see for themselves, it casts Apple as arbitrarily deciding for us- all of us.
I included the Netbook reference to address the recurring theme of "there is no such thing as Flash running on any mobile device."
And that last bit is the crux of it: some consumers want an iDevice from Apple, but they also want the OPTION for it to do something they want it to do. It's not impossible to do this particular thing, but only forbidden because Apple has chosen to lock it out.
As an owner of a lot of Apple stuff myself, I really would like an iPad, but I use enough interactive Flash (not just Flash video) content to see that it is too limiting to try to go without it (and/or go without it until an HTML5 + H.264 + javascript version arrives). A lot of this content is e-learning content, conceptually ideal for a device like the iPad (think ebooks with lots of interactive features). Sure, such content could get redone in HTML5 + H.264 + javascript, but there are NOT many tools to drive those conversions now (often the answer seems to be hand code it from scratch), and the latter only works on a small subset of browsers and platforms (which doesn't create the incentive to spend the money to code the alternate versions from scratch).
So, the choices are do without, change to a standard that doesn't deliver much for me now (and probably for a few years at least), or choose something else that is capable of serving up the best of the Internet today. If that last option is accompanied by a desire for Mac OS X, it pretty much pushes the call to a laptop or desktop. That works for me, but I still wish I could embrace an iDevice and have it cover this one base as well.