There was a time when I would take out a 2nd mortgage to buy a new MacPro. I still have my last MacPro tower sitting in the original box, and it was great! Likewise, I also have the first Intel-based Mac laptop. Today, I admire the new MacPro 'LOOK,' but I no longer trust the reliability of Apple software and hardware. I'm still having issues with my 2017 MacBook Pro after the atrocious update 10.15.x, and yes, I have another defective keyboard key.
Regrettably, I may never buy another Apple product. That hurts as I have nearly every product they make. My iPhone XS Max, with the equally appalling iOS 13.2.3, is still causing me frustration. I suppose I became jaded by decades of love and somewhat trouble-free issues in my 36-years (no typo) of being an Apple consumer. Today, I feel entirely different. I wish the best of luck to those that acquire the new sexy MacPro.
I'm in the same boat, and same age range.
I am building my first PC ever, a 32 Core threadripper machine (I frustratingly have all the parts except the CPU which is back ordered until God knows when) but with a 32 Core 3.7GHz, 128 GB RAM, RTX 2080ti plus cooler, PSU, case, Windows OS etc, I am at about $5500.
The closest I could price the new Mac Pro to that was $16,000, and that Mac Pro had "only" 28 cores at 2.7GHz and 96GB RAM. (No, I don't have ECC RAM but please, if you are already formulating your defense of Apple PLEASE please please stop. I'm animating, not trying to run cancer simulations. And neither is anyone buying this machine).
There is no way that $16,000 Mac Pro will perform 3x faster than my machine, and odds are it will be equal or slower in most respects.
I'm not saying the $60,000 version won't be nice, but seriously.
I can add 3 more RTX 2080Ti's for Redshift Rendering and still be $7000 under, with insane performance.
This machine is insulting to most pros, and shows Apple to be the elitist company most PC users always thought it was, and this seriously hurts to say as I am so into Apple it hurts.
Please don't hurt me.