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Think she moved on, feel awful
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No, dopamine, and/or serotonin.
Maybe plus oxytocin and a generous dose of endorphins.
I'm already starting to care less.
I had a good dinner at P.f. Changs, talked to some friends, talked to that girl who lives 2 hours away and despite cancelling on her twice she is still down to meet lol, and I feel much better.
I had a good dinner at P.f. Changs, talked to some friends, talked to that girl who lives 2 hours away and despite cancelling on her twice she is still down to meet lol, and I feel much better.
So, while you have already cancelled on a girl (woman) who lives two hours away from you twice (and added that illiterate and condescending acronym "lol"), do you still plan to treat her with the consummate contempt you have already treated her with when you meet her, or is she merely something (not someone, because I doubt that you regard the ladies in your life as "someones" rather than "somethings" ) to amuse yourself with before, 1) something better - like an eleven - turns up, or 2) you can resume the co-dependent drama of the toxic relationship with the lady you are currently addicted to and obsessed with?
Inquiring minds wish to know: Would you be up for meeting someone who cancelled on you twice? - and did you offer an apology, respectful regrets, or an exoskeleton of an explanation for cancelling twice?
yea I think it'd be great to meet and see how it goes. She's very attractive so I'm down.
The only hesitation is the long drive but it'll be worth it. The girl is worth the drive IMO.
Exactly WHY is this girl "worth the drive"? Is it only because she is "very attractive?" In what ways is she attractive to you? Looks? Personality? Things you have in common? One, all or none of the above?
Does she even know why you cancelled on her? If she did it would only be logical for her to expect you to go back to that girl at some point...
Why would I tell her why I cancelled...like do you expect me to say “Hey so you’re girl #2 and girl #1 said she’s meeting up so...maybe next time?”
Lol I’m not that dumb
Why not? I thought you said you have all the money "to play the game" and not worrying about doing it safe? It is OK to be "cheesy" and put the girls to the test by judging their reaction. You might be surprised by what you find out.
And if she flaked on you twice, would she be "worth the drive"?
Right.
Looks again.
Nah. You'll miss the drama.
So it's quite literally a sex drive.
I never thought of it that way but yea I would say so.
There's an ego element too though, if I'm being 100% honest about this.
I love it when people see me with someone stunning.
Plot twist:
She said she'll drive here lol.
Well that was easy.
EDIT: I hope she comes through. It's a LONG drive. I guess we'll see.
She said she'll drive here lol.
Well that was easy.
EDIT: I hope she comes through. It's a LONG drive. I guess we'll see.
We got into a huge argument a few days ago and haven't talked since. I don't understand why I feel the way I do which is pretty bad right now.
I have another date; she's really great. If I look around, I know I can get more dates with beautiful women.
I have everything going for me.
In fact, my life has probably been worse after meeting this woman albeit fun in some ways too.
But net happiness is probably less if you factor in the time I've been miserable and the degree of the misery from the medications I've needed to take and so on just to cope.
Yet I just can't help but feel bad. It's been a passionate few months, that's for sure.
I have another date; she's really great. If I look around, I know I can get more dates with beautiful women.
I have everything going for me.
In fact, my life has probably been worse after meeting this woman albeit fun in some ways too.
But net happiness is probably less if you factor in the time I've been miserable and the degree of the misery from the medications I've needed to take and so on just to cope.
Yet I just can't help but feel bad. It's been a passionate few months, that's for sure.
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a girl can flake on me and reschedule but it just depends on the girl.
if it’s someone I REALLY want then of course they’ll get multiple chances.
If I don’t care that much I wouldn’t reschedule
Again you've proven that all you want is a piece of arm candy, sex, and someone to call yours. Doesn't seem to be any sense of connection or anything here.
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I am sure that if every woman in the world saw this thread, your options would go down drastically.
I’m actually honest with girls about exactly what I’m looking for.
It’s better just to be upfront bc in my experience you HAVE to be yourself sooner or later.
so if you’re honest early on, you don’t end up wasting time.
you’ll be surprised. being blunt about what I want works well with the girls I date.
plus they’re smart. Smarter than me anyway.
you think I could convince a hot blond girl with a revealing low cut top and mini skirt and caked on makeup that I’m looking for a girl with a great personality?
please. Who would believe that lol
2nd plot twist:
Everything’s good again.
Do I cancel on the other girl for a 3rd time?
Again, she said she doesn’t mind driving to come see me so I don’t have to drive 2 hours
Everything’s good again.
Do I cancel on the other girl for a 3rd time?
Again, she said she doesn’t mind driving to come see me so I don’t have to drive 2 hours
The real plot twist would be you giving it all up. At least for a week.
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