What would a paid-up member of the human race decide to do?
Someone who treats other humans with respect and courtesy?
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Think she moved on, feel awful
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What would a paid-up member of the human race decide to do?
Someone who treats other humans with respect and courtesy?
Well I like the girl I’m seeing now a lot when things are good and don’t want anyone else.
It’s just when things are bad then it’s like maybe I should move on and see the new girl.
he never answers any of the real questions
How many bad times is it going to take for you to see it’s not good at all? Not that you care to listen.
Maybe its because I don’t talk about the good times?
The memories I’ve made with this girl are priceless. They will be with me for a lifetime.
Like I said, it’s been a very passionate several months.
at this point its not even Hieveryone's fault. it's everyone else's fault for replying to it. all his threads are the same
You've got a point but the problem is he won't let it die, and new people get sucked in.
That seems to be how all of his threads end up.
I am amazed this has not gone there yet. Not sure if it will if it's gone on this long.
Simple. This topic is much more controversial than any political topic. In fact, there is nothing controversial about politics at all when you understand various concepts and the grand scheme of things.
Some guys will realize that they knew nothing about women only when they reach 70. Some guys will say they know everything about women because they've been always close to their mums. LOL
Clearly there is a lot of confusion on the subject.
I seriously wonder if this guy is even gainfully employed at all, as I notice he posts during normal working hours a lot of the time, which is certainly not appropriate if working for someone else and even if he is possibly working for himself it still is not a worthwhile use of his time during business hours.
He definitely does not work on Wall Street. My husband actually did. As a banker. In Manhattan. Worked in the World Trade Center. Was traveling the day it was hit. Lost 1/3 of his company. I know how hard those people work. Zero time to complain on message boards. Hieveryone is not one of them.
He must’ve worked for someone on Wall Street. Worked his way up from analyst I’m guessing?
Or maybe associate?
The real money isn’t with those at the investment banks and yes I’m even talking about the partners.
if your husband really worked on Wall Street, I’m sure you know where the real money on Wall Street is made, and the nature of their work day to day.
Let me put it this way, if you’re making a set salary on Wall Street, you aren’t making real money I don’t care even if it’s 900 base plus bonus which is typically the higher end at the public companies I’ve seen
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Btw, I ended up canceling.
For the 3rd time lol.
I feel kinda bad but hey that’s life sometimes. We’ve all been through it.
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right. I’m the one making up stories. 🙄
Well I guess the “cycle” continues bc everything’s fine now.
I’m not going to leave her.
I know that it may become bad again, but I’ve decided to just deal with it and understand what’s going on and not let it affect me.
As I said, I cancelled on the other girl.
Which I feel bad about BUT at least she doesn’t have to drive 2 hours to see me.
I know people think I should leave her, including my friends, but as they say:
“love is blind”
Even if things don’t seem good All the time, I just want to stick through it.
She gives me a fun life overall.
The downs only make the ups more thrilling.
I wish it didn’t get so bad (at times), but at the same time I couldn’t be with someone who was boring either.
I’m not going to leave her.
I know that it may become bad again, but I’ve decided to just deal with it and understand what’s going on and not let it affect me.
As I said, I cancelled on the other girl.
Which I feel bad about BUT at least she doesn’t have to drive 2 hours to see me.
I know people think I should leave her, including my friends, but as they say:
“love is blind”
Even if things don’t seem good All the time, I just want to stick through it.
She gives me a fun life overall.
The downs only make the ups more thrilling.
I wish it didn’t get so bad (at times), but at the same time I couldn’t be with someone who was boring either.
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"Love is not blind, it is retarded."
What other choice do you have? Relax, you can't quit being yourself.
I noticed that you are talking too much only about what you want, when in reality it is actually the woman who really does the choosing, therefore ultimately it matters only what woman wants. I am wondering if she ever told you that she wants to have kids with you and stuff like that?
Be sure to sign a prenup so that when it's time for the divorce your income from being a Trustfund Baby doesn't get seriously depleted and cause you to live a much different lifestyle than the one to which you aspire..... 
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Again, I don't like it when you say "We've talked...". It almost sounds like a red flag and usually means "I've begged her".
It is very important what the girl says herself. There is no "We've talked...".
I'm really having a hard time now believing any of this is even real. From the way things are going I think everyone else thinks the same by now. Maybe we should call it quits on this game because it's gotten way too far out of hand.
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