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Think she moved on, feel awful
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Maybe you should beg her to take you back.
You deserve each other, you're a perfect match.
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oh, caught up a bit further.
Take the above as "when you split again inside of 2 weeks".
You deserve each other, you're a perfect match.
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oh, caught up a bit further.
Take the above as "when you split again inside of 2 weeks".
I haven't been on this forum since mid-2016 and I eventually forgot it existed.
I saw a ridiculous thread on the 16" macbook pro forum about someone complaining about how the 16" is too thick and doesn't look space age so he can't show off to people who come to his apartment/house for parties.
I thought to myself "wow what a harebrained thing to post" until i saw the poster and my memories of 2015-2016 posting on this site came flooding back to me. glad to see @Hieveryone is still seeking attention just like 3-4 years ago.
Big shout-out to @Scepticalscribe for her always well written and sometimes humorous indulgence of OPs threads. Also shout-out to @Gutwrench and @MacNut for their great sarcastic responses. It's good to be back.
I saw a ridiculous thread on the 16" macbook pro forum about someone complaining about how the 16" is too thick and doesn't look space age so he can't show off to people who come to his apartment/house for parties.
I thought to myself "wow what a harebrained thing to post" until i saw the poster and my memories of 2015-2016 posting on this site came flooding back to me. glad to see @Hieveryone is still seeking attention just like 3-4 years ago.
Big shout-out to @Scepticalscribe for her always well written and sometimes humorous indulgence of OPs threads. Also shout-out to @Gutwrench and @MacNut for their great sarcastic responses. It's good to be back.
Because googling medication is surely more reliable than doing what your doctor says, as his professional medical opinion.
This is like a train wreck, OP comes across on here (never mind what it must be like in person) as emotionally weak, desperately needy, driven entirely by superficial stuff and totally unwilling to fix his situation.
I'm sure he'll find a "10" (who's a solid 2-3 on the personality/sociopath scale - a perfect match) who will gladly take his money for services rendered until even she tires of the whining and moves on.
You may as well just pay hookers mate. You'll lose far less when you trade up.
Why would any "10" who doesn't have a toxic personality (or some other, serious, deal breaking issue) have anything to do with you long term? There's plenty of other fish in the sea for her.
You're acting like a child.
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I’m calling my doctor tomorrow to discuss. I took an over the counter anti histamine bc my nose was stuffy and it made me super sleepy and calmed me down A LOT.
We’ve been through 2 medications which needed to be taken daily and neither of those I liked which she said is fine. I don’t feel like I even need something daily and she’s OK with that.
we also tried that as needed one but when I googled it it said it’s for blood pressure which makes no sense bc I’m young and have fine BP so I’m a little wary to try it even though she insists I try it.
The one she originally prescribed she said is an AS NEEDED anti anxiety pill but she said she doesn’t want to give me more of that.
The over the counter anti histamine is for my stuffy nose but If she says it’s ok to take it as needed for anxiety then I’ll be gold
You seriously misunderstand the gravity of the situation. I honestly don't even know what to say now. I've ran out of words
I hope she cancels on you.
Pro tip: If you don't wish to be treated poorly, stop treating others poorly (i.e. with contempt and a lack of respect).
This other girl (woman) deserves far better than anything you have to offer, given that you have treated her with a casual, contemptuous and dismissive attitude, and a complete lack of respect, to date.
Agree completely, and very well said.
There is nothing but an ego element to this. A needy, narcissistic, ego.
You're not looking for a girl - or woman - with personality; in fact, you are stunned when something turns out to have a personality, even if it proves to be a toxic personality.
A decent personality would be wasted on you, as I very much doubt, firstly, that you could even recognise it, and secondly, I doubt you could respect someone with a decent personality, let alone value and cherish it. .
I can't believe I came back to this thread - anyway bye everyone again.
Every time it dies (naturally), the OP returns - quite deliberately - to revive it, as he cannot bear the thought that it is not active and he the centre of attention.
More than a relationship - actually, what he engages in are not relationships, merely encounters - more than validation of his not inconsiderable ego - he needs attention, as supplied by those who respond to posts on this thread.
Both his consideration of women solely in terms of appearance and the validation that they can bring him, his disgraceful treatment of the women who are unfortunate enough to cross his path and attract his attention, and his contempt for anyone who does not share his warped values, are all made abundantly and appallingly clear in this thread.
More than a relationship - actually, what he engages in are not relationships, merely encounters - more than validation of his not inconsiderable ego - he needs attention, as supplied by those who respond to posts on this thread.
Both his consideration of women solely in terms of appearance and the validation that they can bring him, his disgraceful treatment of the women who are unfortunate enough to cross his path and attract his attention, and his contempt for anyone who does not share his warped values, are all made abundantly and appallingly clear in this thread.
Dude. You're just manic. In one post you've mentioned antihistamines, Alprazolam (assuming, aka, Xanax vs. "some anti anxiety pill"), again with the blood pressure medicine - that a week or so ago, you were baffled by, but still haven't resolved.
You're [supposedly] a financial/investment professional, and you can't even sort out what medications you're taking / supposed to be taking?
I mean, really ...
Just spend some money, go Amsterdam, and enjoy life for a bit. You'll feel happier and not alone.
I find that often times there’s a disconnect between what you hope happens and what really happens.
There’s also a disconnect between how you see things and the way things are.
I think you hope that a man with a good heart finds a loving relationships that stems beyond the superficial. They enjoy deep conversations and a real connection that’s beyond just the physical. Long walks together, read good books, have a high philosophical deep conversations about the universe and erudite topics.
Anything that is less than that MUST be like Amsterdam. How could it be real? There couldn’t be any feelings. It’s not possible for people to have real relationships outside of that. It must just be merely an exchange.
I think you’re convinced that the world works solely through that tunnel vision you have and that nothing else is possible.
You probably believe a man like me is blasphemy. No woman would like him. It’s not possible. When in reality, the most popular and attractive women in society, envied by other women and desired by many men, want to date me.
Sorry @Scepticalscribe but in the real world “nice guys finish last”
It’s always the “worst people”, I’m assuming by your opinion, who have the most in society whether it’s the politicians or the Wall Street guys, and so on. And those aren’t the nicest people.
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No not yet. I don’t like the daily ones and my doctor said that’s fine. She doesn’t think I need a daily one if I don’t want to take it.
She does think the BP one should work but I’m young and have normal BP so I don’t feel comfortable taking it.
That’s been the bottleneck. She also doesn’t want to give the as needed anti anxiety pill anymore which is fine by me. If it’s addicting I’d rather avoid it anyway.
But the OTC anti histamine I took really made me sleepy and just calmed me down. I used bc of my nose but it also made me feel pretty sleepy and calm.
I need to ask her if it’s OK just to take that AS NEEDED bc it seems to work for me.
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So I still have the question:
Do I see the new girl or cancel on her for the 3rd time?
She’s making it easy for me by driving down so I don’t have to go.
At the same time, I do really like the girl I’ve been seeing and everything’s good now...
So not sure how to play it
Do I see the new girl or cancel on her for the 3rd time?
She’s making it easy for me by driving down so I don’t have to go.
At the same time, I do really like the girl I’ve been seeing and everything’s good now...
So not sure how to play it
I don't think you understand what we've been telling you this whole time. It doesn't have to be "read good books" or "have a high philosophical deep conversations about the universe" You just need someone that you can gain knowledge and life experience from. You need someone that can help you become a better person.
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lol lol lol
"everything's good now..." How many times have you said that? You are drinking some tripped koolaid bud. I think you're too deep into the cycle to get out now...
If any of this is even real, which I am starting to doubt heavily.
I just feel bad going out with someone else. Like I don’t want more than one person in life.
And I’m not ready to leave the girl I’ve been seeing at all...I really do like her.
When we argue it’s hard, but over time I feel closer to her.
It’s hard to explain. But I really do like her so much.
I guess the best way to say it is that’s it’s been a very passionate few months
Of course she wouldn't like that. She wants to dominate and own you, no room for anybody else...
If any of this is even real.
First of all, I don’t really like it either.
I know a lot men would love to have multiple women but I just prefer one. I don’t really want multiple women.
Second, which woman would like it? Like not wanting your man to have multiple women is not about dominating and owning him...
You're deflecting my message. I wasn't implying that you liked it or that she should like it. Simply stating that she wouldn't want you to have any other possibilities to escape.
If any of this is even real.
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