I did the 'try and order' dance last night until 12.15am then gave up, managed to get a few 'oops' pages up but no further.
Woke at 4.30am (not with alarm lol) and tried again. First Credit Card was refused .. second one went through. Decided to phone both companies this morning to find out the situation. The refused card company said that some transactions (Apple is one of them obviously) will ALWAYS get refused!! I asked if there's any way around it as we purchase large Apple things about twice a year and was told 'no, it will never go through unless you phone to tell us about it first (I was NOT going to phone them at 4.30am!!!) and then it has to be in a 24 hour window.
The whole point of a credit card is to make things easier not harder! I like that they're being vigilant with the whole fraud thing but when I know I WILL spend large amounts with Apple and have told the CC people this it's frustrating.
So in future, for all Apple products, we will use the other CC company
PS The 'failed' Credit Card Company said 'sorry for the delay in answering the phone, we've been really busy this morning' !! LOL NO KIDDING!!!!