So, the OP says he can't switch from an iPhone. I say the OP can't switch from the App Store and the iOS ecosystem. Personally, I think I have enough reasons to be glad that I'm free of all that.
I agree with some of your points but being "free" from iOS and using android just means you are now stuck in Google's ecosystem. While you can use Amazon marketplace or web installs, the fact still remains that your apps will never run on a non-android device.
My point is the ecosystem is the most essential part of a device, not just an afterthought.
And as for the post about widgets to turn off wireless radios...I don't have to worry about that as my iPhone has Wifi, BT, GPS and 3G all enabled all the time and I still get more than a full days usage.
I feel for the most part that Android is great for tinkerers and micromanagers that enjoy tweaking every little setting on their device that most people don't care about. iOS on the other hand is better suited to people who want things to "just work". Installing a custom rom is great...but most people would rather just use the device out of the box.
It is akin to buying a PC. Some people just walk into BestBuy and buy something off the shelf. Others buy every part form newegg and assemble it themselves. To each their own.