The amount of watchband homophobia is unfortunate and surprising
Out of curiosity, what would a watchband for straight people even look like?
I've never heard Apple doing anything for "straight people". Or any company for that matter. All I'm saying is it's gotta work both ways.That would mean that everyone else will always have more potatoes than Bob. No equality.
And, of course, Apple already does things that benefit everyone.
Out of curiosity, what would a watchband for straight people even look like?
Im not offended by a lack of a straight watch band. Im just painting the picture of this ridiculous first world problem we have here in the US. It has got to work both ways or else it's sexist!
It would look like this:Out of curiosity, what would a watchband for straight people even look like?
Im not offended by a lack of a straight watch band. Im just painting the picture of this ridiculous first world problem we have here in the US. It has got to work both ways or else it's sexist!
I was actually surprised to read that last bit, because you nailed it. I can’t speak for everyone in every ‘minority’ group, but personally I think you got it exactly right.
Especially that first paragraph – The sort of prejudice we’re talking about here isn’t about individuals, it’s about power. Yes, individuals can be a part of the problem, but the root of the problem is a system-wide and significant imbalance of power.
Which is exactly why there’s no need for straight pride marches, or white pride, cis pride, etc.
Yes, be proud of who you are as an individual, absolutely. But recognise when you’re in one of the groups that currently has all the power, and (if you want to be part of the solution) take responsibility for it, and be unafraid to fight for change.
Much respect to you for doing so. Thanks!
It may be trolling but it's hard to stand by and say nothing in the face of something so blatantly disrespectful to so many members of our forum, who have enough of this kind of thing shoved at them in daily life.
I myself didn't realize this thread would get quite like this. I was hoping to discuss the history of the use of the rainbow in the LGBT rights movement. It was just a bit of culture and history I had missed out on even though it happened around me at some point.
I live in a pretty progressive part of the country, so many of these arguments and discussions were settled a generation ago, pretty much starting with my generation. Threads like this are a startling reminder it's not all that settled for the country as a whole.
But liberals always blame straight white people for everything.
Yeah, the new stripes (in Philadelphia, but I bet/hope it spreads further) are an interesting one.As far as the brown and black stripes that were recently added, that was only in Philadelphia so far, and that's causing a ton of controversy, as the original flag is already meant to represent everyone. However, I think many members of the LGBTQ+ community are aware there's pretty bad racism in the community (as there is in the general population) so we need to do something about that. I'm not sure changing the flag is the right way personally though.
Some of you should be ashamed of yourselves, and others of you are awesome human beings and I'm thankful you exist.
Most LGBTQ people in America have it relatively easy right now compared to several other places around the globe. If the statistics are to be believed, the fastest growing religion around the world is Islam. That should be cause for alarm for LGBTQ folks.
Sure, some Christians might tell you you're going to hell or refuse to bake you a wedding cake, but some devout Muslims see it as their religious duty to murder you solely because of your sexual orientation. I guarantee you there won't be any of these Pride watchbands visible on the streets of Riyadh.
It’s worth posting in threads like this, not because of the trolls who post, but because of the people who might read it and fall for their nonsense. Same reason why it’s worth calling out such people in the real world. You’re unlikely to change their mind, but you might give thought to a bystander or passer-by.
I work with many Muslim colleagues who have no issue (at least outwardly) with me being gay. I'm openly gay here, and the same goes for my work within the police force.
Religion does not mean you cannot be tolerant and respectful of other people. You might be surprised how many Muslims either don't give a crap about your sexuality or indeed celebrate it as being a part of what makes you, you.
I was actually surprised to read that last bit, because you nailed it. I can’t speak for everyone in every ‘minority’ group, but personally I think you got it exactly right.
Especially that first paragraph – The sort of prejudice we’re talking about here isn’t about individuals, it’s about power. Yes, individuals can be a part of the problem, but the root of the problem is a system-wide and significant imbalance of power.
Which is exactly why there’s no need for straight pride marches, or white pride, cis pride, etc.
Yes, be proud of who you are as an individual, absolutely. But recognise when you’re in one of the groups that currently has all the power, and (if you want to be part of the solution) take responsibility for it, and be unafraid to fight for change.
Much respect to you for doing so. Thanks!
Religion does not mean you cannot be tolerant and respectful of other people.
I agree. But as with any religion, there are those who are "devout" who insist on following scriptures to the letter even if it means treating another person as less than human. Not all Muslims fall into that category, to be sure; but there are some that do. Those that do sometimes commit awful acts of violence like murdering and hanging gay people upside down from buildings in Saudi Arabia.
Wow. You’re awesome! Can’t “like” this post enough.Thanks. I'm actually really happy to hear that.
The past few years have been quite something... it's hard to explain, but it seems like the world has just become more and more exposed, and I just keep seeing how horrible things are for so many people, and all this time I have been in a place of incredible privilege and completely unaware of all of it. (relatively speaking... I'm only in my late 20s)
I think it comes down to having some empathy for fellow humans, and feeling guilty about being comfortable while so many people aren't. It breaks my heart to know that some people's lives are suffering end to end. No one deserves that. We don't live long enough for this ****.
I've been trying hard to learn about the struggles of people I had no idea were systematically discriminated against. LGBTQ, minorities, women, the disabled, the poor, and combinations of those. I know I'm far from perfect but I do my best. I can't handle it all the time, but even that reminds me how lucky that it's not something I ever struggle with. Like, literally, anytime I want I can completely ignore it and it doesn't affect me at all. (No it does, I get to keep enjoying my privilege, and I even get to claim it's because I'm amazing.) And people like Sefstah, well, I can see why they don't see the problem, but at the same time they're completely wrong and being willfully ignorant. It's not hard to see these problems, but you have to be willing to see it and also accept you're not gonna like what you see. And you have to realize there's a lot to learn and that you're inevitably gonna be wrong sometimes (why I put the disclaimer in the first place). It's not fun. And it's near impossible to do when you're always surrounded by other people unwilling to see the problem.
Again, it's really hard to put all this into words. But I do care, and I try to help when I can, and I hope we keep progressing. I hope we get to a point where no one is suffering or being discriminated against, and I hope it comes sooner rather than later. And I hope people like Sefstah join the fight.
It's great that the proceeds of the band sales will go to support the cause it represents.
But I have to say that a rainbow means a lot of things to lots of different people. I see that particular variant of the rainbow pattern for example and think about the 70's and Robin Williams' character Mork. Or even the original Apple logo. As a pet owner "Rainbow Bridge" is another association.
When/how did the rainbow symbol or colors get associated almost exclusively with LBGT? I haven't been living under a rock, I am aware that it is, I'm just fuzzy on the history of it. I'm thinking it was in the 90's but I don't remember how. I was working 70 hour work weeks back then so I was a zombie and missed out on a lot of stuff that happened in my early adulthood. I even missed Seinfeld and most of Friends!
Edit to Add: sorry I didn't realize this thread was going to get so ugly so fast. I didn't mean to ask a comparatively frivolous question here. I was just curious about the history and significance of the symbolism since it is something I was alive for but clearly missed.
Identity politics has poisoned our country and youth.All these people yelling at you have the definition of first world problems. You're 100% correct of course but the perpetual "Im a victim" and "blame everyone else for my problems" mindsets have already taken over in the US. It will be a while before that cycles out.