My friend you are almost the same situation as i do except that i've order it through Local AT&T Store and during afternoon and tracking say ordered on 10/7/2011 and also email say 14-21 days. it's still on back ordered.
with your info i think my phone is getting close. But unfortunately my phone still has back ordered status and pending shipment etc etc whatever.. lol~ Wish me luck man
Same here. Ordered from the store on Friday AM (Central), and got the same 12-21 day email. Still showing backordered, but not worried. I am sure the status will change sometime today like it has for everyone else.
Neurobit