Been lurking a few weeks awaiting delivery of my SG 6+ 64GB (ordered 9/15) and have come to the following conclusion:
If you've ordered a 6+ and have checked the standard places for signs of your order moving:
www.att.com/wirelessorderstatus
877.782.8870
and it isn't moving AND you have the option to pick it up from the Apple store:
1) Find a store with it in stock: http://www.seaturtle.org/idevice/
2) Cancel your AT&T order
3) Reserve and schedule pickup via apple.com
A majority of the new phones coming in appear to be going to stock Apple's own stores/orders...a smaller part appears to be going to the various vendors, of which AT&T is just one (and even with AT&T, some portion still appears to be going to their stores).
Some of us (phone's bought through employer managed business accounts, some permutations of AT&T NEXT plan, etc.) have no other option but to wait. About all we can do is watch the shipments arrive and hope one is ours:
http://flightaware.com/live/iphone
PS - For those that have ordered the iPhone 6 (not the 6+), you are more likely to get your phone soonish...but you may also want to consider buying directly from Apple.
THANK YOU. This completely just worked for me
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Guys..I could not wait anymore and just got my iphone.
Like many of you, I ordered 128GB 6+ Space Grey on 9/14 and played the AT&T waiting game with expected delivery 11/9 - 11/27.
So today I happened to check http://www.seaturtle.org/idevice/ and Bellevue Mall (near Seattle) had it in stock in Gold. I tried to get it held on the phone but could not since I had an existing pre-order.
So I bit the bullet and drove 15 minutes to the mall. They did indeed have 2 128GBs, one in gold and one in silver. They offered to reserve it for me until closing. So I then went to AT&T store and requested my order to be canceled. And it was done in 5 mins. Walking back, I checked my status on apple.com and could indeed order. Went back to Apple Store with my reservation, signed up for Next, paid taxes and am now the proud owner of a 6+ 128GB in Silver.
I will never ever order directly from AT&T ever again.