I thought so. You don’t understand the term false equivalence.
False equivalence is a logical fallacy. No one is suggesting that there is an equivalence any where. People are disagreeing with your opinions based on their own experiences. You seem to be arguing that unless one ascribes to your putative cultural biases and traditions, opinions contrary to your own are logical fallacies. That’s hogwash.
Here's a link with a simplified explanation:
The equivalence posters are asserting is that because the way that one country or region deems one thing , another must deem the same thing - because both countries or regions live under the rule of law.