MOST things in life work like Apple. Apple figures out the one way which they think is easiest, and MOST people willingly follow along.
For example, go to Home Depot and buy a door. Where is the pre-cut hole for the door handle? Can you choose where you want it? No. You can buy a door without a door handle hole, but move it even 1/4 of an inch to the left or right and good luck getting a handle and lock to fit. All the locks will fit one particular location on the door.
Practically everything I buy, I'm told how to use it. Can I put the steering wheel wherever I want it on my car? No. Only certain types of tires will fit my car. Only certain sizes of drinks will fit in my cup holder.
It is NORMAL to expect to use a product the way a manufacturer designs it. MOST people understand this, and it's not being a 'follower' or a 'sheep' - it's the NORMAL way life works. And do I get my panties in a bunch over being 'controlled'? No. I don't think of it that way. I'm free to choose what I buy, what I use and what I don't buy and what I don't use. I buy an iPhone because I ENJOY the experience.
Excellent, something similar i would've said but not as lucid as you did.