For me personally it's not an issue. I have fairly big hands, so there's not too much pressure on my pinky finger. I usually have around 5-6 hrs screen on-time per day, so I think I would notice if it would be a problem...AND I have to 12 Pro Max, so if you have the smaller Pro I think it shouldn't be an issue at all

Also, I'm among the people who actually like seeing the bottom lip of their phone – I think the silver stainless steel goes so well with the brown leather. So far I only have some micro scratches, nothing one couldn't wipe off with some polish.