I've been in quite a few states, having lived in a few on both sides of the continent, and have lived overseas. I'm more concerned about caring for my family than I am adding notches in my frequent flyer miles account.
Lecture someone else.
You're the one who decided to share the otherwise worthless information about your travel habits; if you don't want to discuss something about your personal life don't bring it up in the first place. I have officially lost interest in talking to you so whatever.