Our story - my husband and I were ready at preorder launch with Apple Store app, Apple website, Verizon website open.. Verizon was the first to enable so I went ahead and ordered there (but will probably need to call them since they charged me an extra 40 buck line charge for some reason).. Supposedly will arrive Nov. 3 but we’ll see what actually happens. Glad in my sleep-deprived state I had retrieved my credit card, since I had originally intended to purchase from Apple with Apple Pay.
But as for Apple, as in previous years we ran into delays... at about 10 minutes after launch the website was finally available (not the app)... my husband ordered the phone, but got the message that they couldn’t contact the carrier and his phone had been “reserved”... not sure why they had to do this as he is buying it outright... So he got the acknowledgement email regarding the reservation at 5:40 a.m. Eastern time, and is still waiting for the email regarding finishing the order. Supposedly using the app was going to be the “best” way to order, but it did not enable until around 16 minutes after launch.
At the time he made the “reservation” the site said 2-3 weeks availability. Space gray, 256 GB.