Keep in mind that the stuff you list having done on your phone, are done by the same type of people that modify their computer operating systems, or run various flavors of Unix / Linux to get the exact environment they want to reside in. You (nor myself or many on here) are general consumers, and expect more from, and more fully utilize our electronic devices.
I don't think that's entirely true. People on these forums seem to think that Android is for users that are computer and coding geniuses, yet some of the most innovative things are done with an iPhone too. I personally wouldn't want to jailbreak or root, or bootrom or whatever the hell my phone, tablet or PC.
I don't want a hackintosh, and I've just stepped into the world of Ubuntu ONLY because my department had a bunch of old PCs that are great for just surfing the web. I am no hacker and as I've said I'd pick iOS if it weren't for those few things that I actually like about Android.
iPhone users jailbreak and hack their phones too. Everything Rodimus mentioned are things I like to do, and save for anything related to media and broadcast journalism I am NO super nerd hacker. Changing the launcher and getting certain widgets is just an app away. There is an app I use to get 5 or 6 icons on one row on my EVO, and another I use for putting notes on my homescreen.
It is funny watching people on here vehemently defending their position as to which platform is better, then later sitting down at lunch with various friends (both iOS and Android users), playing cross platform multiplayer games on their phones. None of them care about anything people rant on about here, and often are envious of something the other person's phone can do over theirs (regardless of what side they are on).
It is nice that there are options for all of us to choose from.
This is very true and goes for just about every piece of technology on the market. I'd love to have a Dell M6600 running OSX and an SGSIII with iOS. Or an HP Z1 with TBolt.