I have been lurking, just created an account so I can join in the Gold misery. I had my husband go stand in line for me launch morning at an Apple store but they had hardly any golds. They were gone by the time they got to him with tickets. I ordered my phone on apple.com around 7 something Eastern time on the 20th. So a little more than four hours after launch. Gold 32 GB ATT.
I am still processing. I also ordered a case and paid the expedited shipping. I just called Apple to express my concern that my case is only returnable till this weekend and I don't have a phone to try with it yet. She could not help me at all. I also asked if paying for the expedited shipping was worthwhile and she could not answer me. I asked about the vague "October" and narrowing down the date and she said we do not know, we only know they are back ordered. So gold phones ordered hours after launch are back ordered? That phone call me left me more hopeless than before!! I know it's just a phone but my 4s broke and I am using my husband's old 4 right now and it is very slow. It's my work, home and cell phone. I am almost 8 months pregnant and just want this phone before the baby is here!