Just to put some people's minds at ease.
I talked to a supervisor within the online sales department today. This is what she said with 100% certainty.
Everyone who has an expected "ship date of 10/14" on their pre-order status will have their phones sent out on Thursday, 10/13 via Fed-Ex overnight.
This is the most concrete answer I've seen. I had to call on an unrelated issue so she didn't seem to pissed off talking to another iPhone customer and she said that when most people call, they call the general customer care number which unfortunately don't deal with online sales and therefore don't always have "up-to-date" information. In other words, VZW has no communication between their departments.
I can finally stop checking my bank statement and order status everyday.
Cheers,
Rashawn