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There’s plenty of research papers: “According to Bagemihl (1999), same-sex behavior (comprising courtship, sexual, pair-bonding, and parental activities) has been documented in over 450 species of animals worldwide.”

Now, I do want to point out there are some fallacies to watch out for when comparing same-sex behaviour in animals and humans. I just brought up the point because some idiot earlier in this thread claimed “it’s not natural”. Whatever that means.

I always found this recent story compelling:

https://www.nytimes.com/2019/01/15/style/gay-penguins-australia.html
 
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Why would you bring up the point that you as a straight man could never marry a man? That’s like pointing out the grass is green and the sky is blue.

I assume you’re a white heterosexual male, the most privileged category of all humans. In that case, it’s a bit ironic to complain about job discrimination laws that were put into place because many groups are discriminated against on the work floor based on skin colour, gender, sexuality, religion, ... while you are part of a group that is not underrepresented.

Now, do we need the best person for the job? Yes of course. But if two candidates are equally good for a position, and one is a minority, I wholeheartedly support any rule that prefers that candidate.

I brought it up because it is true. Marriage is between a man and a woman. The reason there is marriage is kids result from that union. Homosexual coupling doesn’t produce that. There is no need for government sex partner registries, which is what marriage has been turned into.

If I am white and heterosexual why should that matter? Assigning things based on group identity seems like a pretty bad road to go down. I mean I wouldn’t want to be on the losing end of that so I’d have to work to suppress all other groups than mine.
 
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I brought it up because it is true. Marriage is between a man and a woman. The reason there is marriage is kids result from that union. Homosexual coupling doesn’t produce that. There is no need for government sex partner registries, which is what marriage has been turned into.

Marriage is whatever we define it to be. The main goal of marriage, earlier on, was to act as an alliance between families. Definitions change. Concepts change.

Also, there are plenty of kids born outside marriages, so marriage does not seem to be a required factor to produce children. And, there are plenty of straight married couples without children. So, why do you conflate the two when they have clearly nothing to do with each other. People do not get married because they want kids, they get married because they LOVE each other.
 
Marriage is whatever we define it to be. The main goal of marriage, earlier on, was to act as an alliance between families. Definitions change. Concepts change.

Also, there are plenty of kids born outside marriages, so marriage does not seem to be a required factor to produce children. And, there are plenty of straight married couples without children. So, why do you conflate the two when they have clearly nothing to do with each other. People do not get married because they want kids, they get married because they LOVE each other.

If marriage is whatever we define it to be then we can define it to be between a man and a woman. But marriage is the reality that men and women pair to raise kids because sex produces kids.

It isn’t that kids can’t be born outside of marriage. It is people get married to protect those kids. Most married people have kids. That some don’t doesn't mean that isn’t what marriage is about. Not everyone gets married out of love. Some do because they have a child. Others do for convenience, citizenship and all sorts of other reasons. So if we are going to say marriage isn’t about kids then it isn’t about love either.
 
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My favorite part of homophobia is that most of its practitioners believe that an unmarried 34 year old middle eastern jewish liberal man who liked sandals, famous last dinner parties, and traveled with an exclusively male entourage his entire life, has taught them that homosexuality is wrong.

Don't forget all that self indulgent washing of feet.
 
Finally, a reply quoting my original question that almost doesn't miss the point. Well apart from the nonsense about Middle East and buildings...

Ignoring that second bit then, Cook became CEO in 2011, and was practically COO from 2007. Sure I accept he could just be a "private person" but here's someone who was in a position of power, extremely secure in their professional life, and living in one of the most liberal pro-LGBT cities in the world, someone who could have really set an example to others living in fear, without risking anything.

My point was really "what took him so long"?
Touché and point made. However, my ultimate question is “why do I have to know what he or anyone else does in the bedroom? What does that have to do with being a great American company, products and services?” I’m missing the point, aside from people wanting to make everything political these days.
 
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****, I originally posted joke here, but I think it was ambiguous and came across as mockery of pride events. Let's try something serious…

Yes, it's called a pride parade despite sexuality being nothing intrinsically worthy of taking pride in. However, in a world where gays have been criminalized, publicly lynched, and prevented from marrying, being an out gay is something worthy of taking pride in. Many queer folk are still beaten and disowned by their families.

And, yeah, Veteran's Day—a national holiday that has been around for a century—is one day whereas this not-nationally-recognized pride thing goes on for a month. You'll have a reason to complain about inequality or messed up priorities once we start getting an entire month off to celebrate gayness. As it stands, you get no time off, and many are still closeted, living in fear.

Believe me, those closeted people want gay pride parades to be unnecessary and irrelevant just as much as the most vehement homophobe—albeit for different reasons.

I came out a little over two years ago, and my parents aren’t accepting of it and my brother told me I’m going to hell. My sisters are alright with it, at least, but I can’t go to any family events and be myself. I went to my first pride this year, and it was an amazing experience. There were straight people there, too, simply to show support. It was cool seeing so many different people from different walks of life all gathering to celebrate each other’s differences. It was an amazing experience for me, and it made me not feel alone. All that to say, you’re right and thank you.
 
Touché and point made. However, my ultimate question is “why do I have to know what he or anyone else does in the bedroom? What does that have to do with being a great American company, products and services?” I’m missing the point, aside from people wanting to make everything political these days.
You don’t know what happens in Tim Cook’s bedroom, and it’s rude of you to speculate.
 
“why do I have to know what he or anyone else does in the bedroom? ... I’m missing the point, aside from people wanting to make everything political these days.

Make everything political “these days”? In 1960, every state in the US has anti-sodomy laws. In 2003, when the Supreme Court ruled anti-sodomy laws unconstitutional, 14 states had anti-sodomy laws. People have been concerned about what other people do in their bedrooms for the full history of the US.

Society is now moving towards getting politics out of the bedroom. But to do that, we’ve had to destigmatize homosexually, which has been helped along by prominent people proclaiming their sexual preferences.
 
Even when certain sex acts where prohibited it applied to everyone.
Kansas, Kentucky, and Texas have laws that ban sex acts between homosexuals that are legal between opposite sex couples. Other states have had statutes in the past that apply only to same-sex couples.
 
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I respect your argument, look I have a lot of gay friends, it does not bother me. But in my opinion, companies should stay far away from supporting anything regarding what happens in the bedroom and any persons sexuality. The stance does not bother me, the issue does not bother me, I don’t like it being so “public” and marketed. That’s all I am saying.

FFS. Is every straight relationship reduced to "what happens in the bedroom" too? Do you think that everytime I see a fully clothed straight couple going about their daily lives I imagine "what happens in the bedroom"? Honestly, if that's all your relationship is then I feel sorry for you.

Just be thankful you had your rights handed to you on a plate. Do "all your gay friends" contribute anything more to society or your friendship than "what goes on in the bedroom"? The fact you don't like it shows you do have a problem with it.

And to anyone who keeps saying "it's not natural".
A) Yes there are plenty of species that exhibit homosexuality.
B) I'll tell you what's not "natural"/only displayed in humans:
Cars
Consumer electronics
Religion
Complex medical procedures.
Plus many many more.

It reminds me of a quote I heard.
Someone told me "Being gay isn't natural in the eyes of God."
I'll tell you what isn't natural in the eyes of God - contact lenses.
 
Here you go. Now you can buy one:

https://www.apple.com/shop/product/...1fd3f289b31911654bcfdf2affdffb827784fa3bca70a
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I don't like commercials with straight people constantly on my TV kissing and being "public" and marketed on billboards, etc either.

Banning people is always the first step towards dictatorship today you ban a religious guy for his views on homosexuality next time he’s in power he will imitate you and ban your speech. In the guy’s example, he got no likes to his comment and has been automatically and naturally marginalized. Societies always find a way to balance things out. Freedom of speech is important now and we need to protect it.

George Orwell said: If liberty means anything at all, it means the right to tell people what they do not want to hear.
 
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My point still stands. In the UK they have as much rights as straight people, as I said they are treated equally. I guess it’s different having an American mentality to it?
You don’t need to tell someone your gay for them to be friends with you, it’s not a disability!
Unfortunately attitudes do not change with legislation. Yes in the UK we now have equal rights but that doesn't stop same sex couples getting beaten up just for being a same sex couple.
 
Banning people is always the first step towards dictatorship today you ban a religious guy for his views on homosexuality next time he’s in power he will imitate you and ban your speech. In the guy’s example, he got no likes to his comment and has been automatically and naturally marginalized. Societies always find a way to balance things out. Freedom of speech is important now and we need to protect it.

George Orwell said: If liberty means anything at all, it means the right to tell people what they do not want to hear.

You don't have absolute free speech though.

Defamation/slander/libel
Incitement to genocide
Swearing/cursing on children's TV shows
 
If marriage is whatever we define it to be then we can define it to be between a man and a woman. But marriage is the reality that men and women pair to raise kids because sex produces kids.

It isn’t that kids can’t be born outside of marriage. It is people get married to protect those kids. Most married people have kids. That some don’t doesn't mean that isn’t what marriage is about. Not everyone gets married out of love. Some do because they have a child. Others do for convenience, citizenship and all sorts of other reasons. So if we are going to say marriage isn’t about kids then it isn’t about love either.
Why are you arguing against me and then making my point? Yes, we can define marriage to be whatever we want it to be. And now we have defined it to be a union of two people, regardless of gender. And yes, they can marry without producing children or being in love. Everybody happy.

But the fact that marriage has been dragged into this discussion, is the perfect example why pride month is still desperately needed. Imagine marriage was about producing children, and that the union of straight couples without children was put into question. Every single time! How dare they! It’s not natural! They’ll go to hell for this! Etc. That’s how gay marriage still is for many.
 
when is straight month? JK

To the one who wrote this and those that ‘liked’ it, this is such a stupid, Ill informed and pathetic comment. When people are beaten up and persecuted for being straight maybe then they will need a ‘month’ . Till then just allow those who do suffer such behaviour to demonstrate some pride in their freedom of choice and expression.
 
Disliking having “gay pride” shoved down your throat at every turn for an entire month does not mean you are a “homophobe”. Just saying.
How do you perceive it as being ‘shoved down your throat’? Is it that you don’t want to see it at all in articles or are you physically being escorted there and forced to join the parade? Seems like a very silly comment to me.
 
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