Well, last time I saw an Apple keynote, they told the public exactly that. That they love their customers and want to make them happy.
But I guess you know better, right?
Do you think this is a substantive point, that you've captured the essence of what BaldiMac and others have been saying, and that proving this statement wrong is somehow central to this conversation? I think your objection above is irrelevant in the face of the larger arguments people have made. Here, I've been patient enough to lay it out for you:
Will Apple ever have iOS compatible with Flash?
Nobody knows for sure, but it's doubtful.
What to make of Apple's decision to have iOS currently incompatible with Flash?
It is a reasonable position, even if one doesn't agree with it, and Apple has made their reasons clear. The argument that Apple doesn't allow Flash because it will cut into App profits isn't a very good argument, as explained in this thread several times. These explanations haven't been met with rebuttals so much as denials, so they stand.
Is it wrong for people to want Flash on iOS?
Not 'wrong', but a waste of energy. If you need a Flash-based device, they are available. If Flash is important enough to consumers, Apple will either lose out to competitors or they will decide to include Flash in future products. That said, there is sufficient reason to believe that Flash will not have such effects in the market, as its prominence is decreasing.
What are the consequences of Apple including Flash?
Producing more problems than not including it, again, as detailed in this thread. Even a Flash ON/OFF switch is impractical despite its superficial simplicity.